It means a lot to me to spend so much time with Ivy. To be there for moments like earlier when we left the house, Ivy sitting in her pushchair, and she stuck out her feet and said in a high pitched voice "Slippers OUTSIDE?!". Which made us both laugh! It means a lot to me to know that even when I am not with her, she is being cared for by someone else who loves and respects her, and knows her nearly as well as I do! Soon this balance will be shifting (fingers crossed), and I will be doing a bit more paid work, and Kwojo more Ivy-care. This is something that means a lot to both of us.